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Games + Girlfriend/Boyfriend = fatal error?
15:32 18 Dec '01	Comments: 60

You are one of those addicted players (doesn't matter if it's Quake, CS, UT, Super Mario Bross...) and your girlfriend can't understand your passion ? Yes I know, someone will say "eh, I'm a girl and it's my boyfriend who can't understand it?" O.K., that's not very often, but the solution is the same or nearly the same in both cases. Well, that's a very hard piece of work... Just sit down (not in front of your computer this time) and start to think about what your partners love to do quite often. Then is when they confront you again with something like this: * Are you playing that game for retards again? And you answer: * Mindy, what about your healthy passion about going shopping? * And Kathie, the "precious time" you spend with your wonderful hair? * Your masturbating 99% of your time, Mark, what do you think about that? * John, your passion for watching a bunch of boys running after a ball on television? Maybe they can't understand what you are trying to say, but sure they rest for a moment thinking if you are on drugs or just joking... When they stop to make strange faces, you have to start talking again before they are able to speak out loud. * And... what about... errr ... if you try to get to know me better, I'll try to go shopping, spend time with my hair, watch some football matches on TV and masturbate as often as u do... Then they learn... and learn... and learn... and start to ignore you, and they are even more addicted than you... and one day, they start to go to different LANs. Finally they leave you for a better player... Solution: 1. Continue with your gaming, when they are not near... 2. Teach you'r parents to lie, like "ye ... studied all afternoon " 3. Spend their free time with them, make them feel like a Queen/King 4. Don't watch/read/ask/talk anything in relation with computers when you are with them But it is possible that they understand your first answer, that's because they really love you then all works on, your life is marvellous and you finish your days together with your addiction. :D

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#1 - 15:33 / 18 Dec '01 - cy

lol!!!
btw zigg's real name is mark.. WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU?!?!

#2 - 15:41 / 18 Dec '01 - cracken

ZIGG, I WOULD HAVE NERVER KNOWN !!! *shocked* ;)

#3 - 15:53 / 18 Dec '01 - beholder

uhm...
Perhaps search for a boyfriend/girlfriend that shares your interests?

By the way I happen to be in Spain too, if you r interested... ;D

Ehm... ;D

#4 - 15:55 / 18 Dec '01 - Polosatiy

ehh
Bejay:)

#5 - 17:23 / 18 Dec '01 - erer

nice

#6 - 17:23 / 18 Dec '01 - erer

My g/f is a little darling...

#7 - 17:23 / 18 Dec '01 - erer

...she doesn't try to put me off, just like she likes to watch telly, I like to game!

#8 - 21:00 / 18 Dec '01 - Daishi

It's not really possible to spend as much time on a girlfriend as you should and still maintain a high level of games playing... I think that having a girlfriend who likes games would probably make that even worse, it's better to seperate your time instead of spend it all on one thing :]

#9 - 21:05 / 18 Dec '01 - aNouC

:o
sure... lots of solutions :)

#10 - 0:33 / 19 Dec '01 - MaLLoK

It's not this way, always
My girlfriend doesnt like playing games but she supports me when Im going to a tournament or something, I know she doesnt want me to keep playing videogames for life but she knows I like it very much and have a good time with it so she doesnt mind really.

in spanish: felicidades Anouc por tu columna, espero q te fuese bien el viaje de vuelta a Barcelona, un abrazo.

#11 - 2:28 / 19 Dec '01 - Zepovinho

:o
Nice !

in portuguese : felicidades Anouc pela tua coluna , espero q faзas uma boa viajem de volta a Barcelona , um abraзo ! :PP

#12 - 12:36 / 19 Dec '01 - aNouC

thx for the support :)
for mallok: "You are one of those addicted players (doesn't matter if it's Quake, CS, UT, Super Mario Bross...) and your girlfriend can't understand your passion ?" <-- that's the beginning and if is not ur case, greetz :)))

ye the LAN that weekend was cool btw... Grбcias por estar siempre ahн, un abrazo! :D

#13 - 13:32 / 19 Dec '01 - frost

greetings from esports-america.com again
Girlfriend that plays games.. interesting concept.. I doubt that would work for me because I can get really competetive.
A girlfriend shouldnt have to see that vicious side of me thats screaming for the f---ing team to get the f--- to the motherf---ing RA.

I'm not in a relationship, but when I do get into one, I'd rather my girlfriend know about my hobby and not participate.

I'm not saying i wouldnt get intimate with a girl that plays games. However, I'm not gunna start a relationship with a girl that shares that big of a common interest with me. I'd want to get into a relationship with a girl that can expose me to new things, that aren't necessarily computer or gaming related. Just my humble opinion.

Keep up the interesting columns, ziggurat is the orignial sexu.

Frost
www.esports-america.com

#14 - 14:00 / 19 Dec '01 - Arctur

Hi guys!
It's good topic, so, what about gf that think, that computer games are not important part of life at all. Shopping is good, couse it makes us unhungry, undressed and at last healthy. Wonderful hair is good, couse it makes us beautiful and help to good intercourse in society. Masturbating is good (hmm... you really have no girl for normal sex? ;-) couse it makes us unnervous and at last, healthy. Only TV as I think is correct comparison with computer games, but... didn't you think what your gf care for football in TV? ;-) Ask her, and than relax, couse you probably will hear nothing good ;-)

#15 - 14:07 / 19 Dec '01 - Tek6

aNouC
Nice reading. But plz specifie the tru meaning in why she cant understand my interesst in gaming. Thsi is jusst the thoughts that we have all came across, nothing special. I eman search yer soul for the answers in which i can use against her. I mean its necessary, if im supposed to survive this hellish nightmare hehe.. I need to know.. So plz do help me through this. It cant be this sick and hard to just have an interesst in sweden for the moment. And all the friends i have got the same problem. Is it that we live in a society when a woman cant understand and respect a guys doing, or is it jusst from case to case, and in that case, i need to know.. But anyway good reading aNouC.

Regards

#16 - 15:09 / 19 Dec '01 - MaLLoK

anyway
I know it inst my case but from my POV gf/bf + gaming =! fatal error always, it depends on how you manage both lifes, you can play games and compete in but you can take it as your hobby (it doesnt take more time really, if you are a talented player you will be good surely) and hang out with your friends and gf, anyway I just wanted to give you my point of view, all gf's arent like mine though. hehe. see ya in MVQ 2!! take care.

#17 - 15:32 / 19 Dec '01 - hahahahhahaa

<b>rofl frost</b>
hahahahahha

<b>Frost rules! hahahahah</b>

#18 - 17:35 / 19 Dec '01 - d3sp

hehe, I just sit and play, shout on BC, chat on IRC, and the girl next to me have to cope with it. or she may go home ;)

but she sits and waits, because she knows what she gets after I am finished with Q3 :))

#19 - 19:33 / 19 Dec '01 - kazuyama

:/
a lollipop?

#20 - 21:48 / 19 Dec '01 - bento

.
clever kzu
.
love o/

#21 - 22:38 / 19 Dec '01 - bento

Love
btw anouc sure is really cute. :>
i remember da-killer was trying to seduce her during the whole lanarena6, pretty funny :]

#22 - 11:00 / 20 Dec '01 - aNouC

uiiiii!
he was just polite, and gave me his computer to me, so i was able to do my online stuff =P nothing else... tsts !

#23 - 14:06 / 20 Dec '01 - theizn

nice,.
go on,.
gl and cu :)

#24 - 15:35 / 20 Dec '01 - cracken

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#25 - 16:23 / 20 Dec '01 - beholder

So Anouk is from Barcelona?
I guessed it from a message...
The things starts to get more and more interesting. ;DDD

Obviously I'm so cute that the girl will fall to my knees the first time we will meet, but, by the way, we'll talk about this in private. Besides there's another interesting question. What ******** of a connection do you use to play with a german clan from Barcelona? Actually, I'm here since september and ping is shitty even with a cable...

See ya (yeah, don't hurry, you can ask for a date with mail... ;D)

#26 - 17:17 / 20 Dec '01 - riboflavin

perfect solution
why doesnt everyone get a g/f they can play quake with and your problems are solved! works for me...

the masterbation thing is a seperate issue

#27 - 21:16 / 20 Dec '01 - aNouC

err..
o_O

#28 - 21:52 / 20 Dec '01 - zpiro

If i had a gf that disliked fps games, id dump her. same if i had a gf that hated swimming and sailing. would create too many conflicts... *uNF*

#29 - 9:26 / 21 Dec '01 - -a-sony

women= inherently evil
That's right folks. Women are oppressors. Nothing else. And from now on, they're nothing but wet and warm pocket pussies. Except for anouc. I just met her not too long ago..and she seems ok. But for the rest of you...you're all inherently evil.

Disclaimer: i just broke up with longtime gf..so if any women are offended by my comments...sorry. :(

#30 - 13:16 / 21 Dec '01 - Arctur

To #29:
May be your g-f became oppressive 'couse she loved herself a bit stronger that you..... So, you spoke nothing new, really... Not all woman are like that one. Or, at last, not all woman love themselfs more than their mans... Let you find a new girl :-)

#31 - 14:15 / 21 Dec '01 - bento

nothing else huh?....
yeah right "nothing else..." :/
i had to wait for him for almost 2hour until he decides to drive me home. I fell asleep on the sofa :/ and "nothing else..." huh?
U LIAR!

#32 - 20:46 / 21 Dec '01 - TheBoTeacheR

you just have to think....
Excuse my english , my language is spanish ok?..
well I'm married since a year ago i'm 23 my wife is 20 and i play games as long as i want, just that you must give time to her when she ask for it... or when u think she need's it. or arrange your time of play, look, she goes bed almost 9 pm so i go bed with her , she get sleep, then i wake up to gaming, yeah... so i go bed almost at 3 am with a happy fraggin' smile. other stuff that works great is to get lot lot of images, about flowers, natural scenery, so she can see all of them but be sure to get 100000000000 images so it'll envolve a lot of time to see them jejeje. get windows xp so she can experiment in "her computer" with all the "PACOTILLA" graphic stuff... included in it... get easy games as pacman, airxonix, monopoly, memory blocks, jacks, mamba, sokoban, etc, in fact she saw airxonix and she like's it so I buy it for her in the web site so wtf she plays too... and I w/my FPS games, get some time and make a Powerpoint card with flowers saying i love you and some a nice animations, send her e-mails, postcards, nice stuff, jokes, show her www sites about girls, who talk about advices on clothes, hair, look, stuff about womans etc, introduce her step by step, just a little time to time in the computers world , something she will find interesting that's for sure, be creative and you will have time for anything you want to do in front your computer. Man if your girl love's you she will understand you and both of you will be satisfied. believeme I do it that way.
we love each other and everything is OK.
that If you really want your gf if not you better stay alone and masturbate yourself there are a lot free porno sites
in the web ;)
I could say a lot more of clearly things if I could write in spanish... sorry.
good luck.. :)

#33 - 22:29 / 21 Dec '01 - aNouC

esto...
lol long thing.. well if u need to xpress urself in spanish.. feel free to do it, i understand u =)

#34 - 23:39 / 21 Dec '01 - -a-sony

yo tambien te entiendo
Expresate hombre!

#35 - 4:05 / 22 Dec '01 - Nasitu

OWNED!
Harhar n1 Nuk...
owned!

jaja die WEIBER..
Was eine seltsame "Rasse"
=o))
mfg Nas..
Waagh Waaagh Waaagh Koppab!

#36 - 3:18 / 23 Dec '01 - osi

nice nukah
:)

very specail

100% anouc style :D

#37 - 4:31 / 23 Dec '01 - Tho

Perfect solution #2.
With Q3A I got the perfect solution I guess. My girlfrined started to love playing with Q3, right after I've wrote a config for her with Britney enemymodels called them "britney" (what a suprise) cause she hates her. Thats all I think. Make them interested in one of the views of the game. If they don't like counting and thinking and take it as a challenge, than make them feel: its a nice little game to make them satisfied with winning against (for example Britney-faced) bring it on bots :)))

#38 - 1:40 / 27 Dec '01 - -a-sony

My Apologies
I would like to apologize for my "off topic" statement in the forum. I was drunk and dealt with relationship quarrels. Sorry anouc and everyone at cyberfight.org. I had no intention of disrespecting the board.

thx

#39 - 5:36 / 13 Jan '02 - ^DarK^

where do u lot play?

#40 - 8:02 / 13 Jan '02 - aNouC

err
wt ? where i play ? sk, unmatched and BadGirlsClan!

#41 - 3:25 / 15 Jan '02 - spArk

ole
I love anouc ole ole =)

#42 - 19:46 / 15 Jan '02 - Bieke

qsdf
hehe my boyfriend and me both play :p perfect ;)

#43 - 19:55 / 15 Jan '02 - e0wyn

mouahaha
nice topic :) what about the incompatibility between CS guy/girl and Quake guy/girl ?!
:D

Ў!Quake 4 LifeЎ!

#44 - 12:29 / 16 Jan '02 - aNouC

hehehehe!
LOL yeh i was thinking about this too e0win! :)
i'll see what can i write about it :P

#45 - 11:43 / 17 Feb '02 - ngalani pierre

I want to play pacman
I want to play pacman on my computer

#46 - 12:43 / 19 Feb '02 - aNouC

ding ding
fine, congrats :D hf with it..

#47 - 20:48 / 16 Apr '02 - ZombiekE

Re-reading the column again few months later
I think..... games 4 ever and fuck the anticomputers people like my exgirlfriend.
Find a female gamer or masturbate for ever with porn pages LoL
but... they don't love u :/
Well I'm looking fordward to be in love with a female gamer :)

#48 - 1:59 / 29 Apr '02 - aNouC

rofl
hahahaha c'mon... estas como una cabra xDD pero eres genial :)

#49 - 13:34 / 8 May '02 - [Kami][Q]

Una ANouC !
Buenas tia! ... yo te conoci a ti en el interlight , en una de esas noches quake... XD veo que sigues en esto ... bueno ke te vaya bien! solo que me kedao pillao cuando te visto por aki! ale deu!

#50 - 19:58 / 6 Jun '02 - -buTch-

hi aNouC,
do you speak also German or ?
ich hoffe es doch ;) naja was soll ich sagen, ich find dich einfach sьss und hдtte echt bock drauf dich kennenzulernen ;).. wirs am anfang mit einer runde Quake ? :D

wдr c00l wenn du mir schreiben wьrdest, oder icq nummer geben kцnntest. Thx.. bis dann :)

#51 - 18:40 / 10 Jun '02 - aNouC

huhu
sure buTch... lets play TDM 4on4... just query me and tell me when ! #sk or #anouc ... :)
und ja, ich kann deutsch! hehe

#52 - 0:14 / 7 Aug '02 - Ugot2BkidNme

heh
I don't like my girlfriend gaming she kicks my butt at it. but we are both addicted so I guess its alright :-)

#53 - 11:06 / 1 Sep '02 - Technics

lol
this topic couldnt have come from any1 else but ana:P

bb!

#54 - 15:13 / 8 Nov '02 - aNouC

!
haha lol technics :D

#55 - 14:21 / 10 Jun '05 - GC|Lenin

lol
rofl

#56 - 14:54 / 12 Jun '05 - aNouC

well
Im a girl and I play, my bf is a gamer, so somehow the topic wouldnt be for me, but even when both are gamers, things are not that easy, gaming is a bit annoying when its inside a relation too :)

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